“Ritual of Love: Eleme Town’s Unique Tradition of Carrying Brides in Rivers State”

In the vibrant Eleme Town of Rivers State, marriage customs take on an extraordinary and heartwarming twist. Social media buzzed recently when Port Harcourt Socials, through its official X (formerly Twitter) handle, highlighted an intriguing tradition practiced in the area. The custom? A groom must physically carry his bride on his shoulders for a significant distance after paying her dowry, showcasing strength, love, and commitment.

This unique ceremony adds a touch of humor and spectacle to wedding festivities. With friends, family, and well-wishers cheering on, the groom hoists his bride aloft, embarking on what is fondly referred to as “the bride’s cruise.” In this moment of celebration, the bride’s weight or size is irrelevant — it’s the spirit of the gesture that truly counts.

Beyond the symbolic act, this tradition emphasizes a husband’s willingness to “carry” his wife through life’s challenges, a beautiful metaphor for love and partnership. Eleme Town’s marriage custom has garnered admiration and curiosity, sparking conversations about the diversity of Nigerian wedding traditions and the stories they tell.

This practice, steeped in cultural pride, offers an unforgettable spectacle for onlookers and an enduring memory for the couple, uniting them in joy and shared laughter as they embark on their new journey together.