Prominent social activist and former lawmaker Shehu Sani, along with Peoples Democratic Party (PDP) chieftain Chief Dele Momodu, have called for an apology from Ayodele Fayose, the former governor of Ekiti State, over his recent controversial statements about marriage practices in Northern Nigeria.
During an interview on Channels TV, Fayose, an ally of President Bola Tinubu, claimed that the tradition of marrying multiple wives and having numerous children significantly contributes to Nigeria’s population crisis. He criticized the government’s failure to address economic hardship, attributing it to what he described as “indiscriminate” childbearing and marriage in the North.
Shehu Sani vehemently condemned Fayose’s remarks, describing them as “contemptuous and unconscionable.” Sani emphasized that such comments from a public figure demonstrate a profound lack of sensitivity and respect towards Northern Nigerians.
“Even though Fayose spoke as an individual, his reported statement on Northerners is contemptuous and unconscionable. I suggest he should humbly withdraw it and tender an apology as a statesman,” Sani stated, underscoring the importance of decorum and respect in public discourse.
Chief Dele Momodu also voiced his disapproval, directing pointed questions at Fayose. “My dear Brother Ayo Fayose, I have just two questions, Sir: who is more destructive to the nation, the poor man with plenty of wives and children or the politician with one wife and many high-maintenance girlfriends who waste public resources on extravagant lifestyles, including private jets?” Momodu asked.
He continued, “Who is more productive, the politician who steals the sweat and resources of the citizens or the poor man who sends his many poor wives and children to the farmlands to grow crops for every one of us? Your Excellency, my dear Brother, please, let’s all accept that we’ve failed this country and we need an urgent reset. We cannot afford the blame games at this perilous time… May God forgive our transgressions.”
The heated exchange highlights the deep-seated sensitivities around cultural practices and the role of public figures in addressing national issues with tact and responsibility. As the debate unfolds, the call for Fayose’s apology resonates with the broader need for unity and respect in Nigeria’s diverse society.